Mia was 24.
Smart. Curious. A marketing graduate with a side hustle in photography, a clean resume, and glowing confidence. She had grown up online, learned fast, adapted faster, and believed in doing work that felt right.
On her first day at her new job, she showed up early, dressed neatly, and smiled through the orientation. She was ready.
Ready to make an impact.
Ready to feel part of something.
Two weeks later, she was gone.
Fired.
No dramatic incident. No yelling match. Just a soft email.
“Not a cultural fit.”
What Happened?
If you asked her manager, they’d tell you she didn’t seem committed.
“She kept questioning why we do things a certain way.”
“She seemed distracted during meetings.”
“She didn’t take feedback well.”
“She expected too much, too soon.”
But if you asked Mia?
“I didn’t know what success looked like.”
“They told me to figure things out, but never showed me how.”
“No one explained what mattered — just what not to do.”
“It felt like they hired a machine, not a human.”
This Story Isn’t Rare
In fact, it’s becoming alarmingly common.
Across industries, Gen Z employees — sharp, creative, idealistic — are being hired enthusiastically… and then leaving, or being let go, within weeks or months.
And every time, the same debates resurface:
“They’re entitled.”
“They have no work ethic.”
“They’re too soft.”
“They don’t know how to handle real life.”
At the same time, Gen Z has their own narrative:
“No one trains us.”
“They expect experience without providing it.”
“The culture is toxic.”
“It’s all about control, not collaboration.”
It’s noise.
And it’s blocking us from seeing the real issue.
This Isn’t a Gen Z Problem — It’s a Fit Problem
Let’s look deeper.
Mia, like most of her generation, grew up in a world of:
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Fast answers
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Constant digital exposure
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Mental health awareness
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Personal branding
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A culture that glorifies leaving anything that doesn’t feel right
So when she enters a company that rewards staying silent, following rigid processes, and giving up autonomy “until she’s earned it” — of course it feels like she doesn’t belong.
But this isn’t about being spoiled or lazy.
This is about entering a game where the rules were never explained, and when she plays it differently — she’s blamed, not coached.
What Mia Needed (But Never Got)
Mia didn’t need a beanbag or free snacks.
She needed:
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A clear definition of what success looked like in her role
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An onboarding process that connected tasks to purpose
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Managers who gave feedback as a conversation, not a judgment
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Permission to ask questions without being labeled “difficult”
She wasn’t resisting effort.
She was resisting meaningless effort.
And that distinction matters more now than ever.
Yes — Mia Had Work to Do Too
She needed to understand that:
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Trust is built, not given
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Feedback isn’t personal — it’s a form of belief
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Not every task will feel meaningful right away
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Patience is a skill, not a weakness
Gen Z isn’t wrong for wanting purpose.
But they have to understand that purpose isn’t usually handed to you.
It’s something you build — often through quiet repetition and uncomfortable growth.
So… Who’s Failing?
Neither side is entirely to blame.
But both sides are responsible.
We don’t need to “fix” Gen Z.
We need to rethink leadership.
We need to stop hiring people for their “fresh energy” and then punishing them for not blending into outdated systems.
We need to replace rigid corporate playbooks with human conversations.
Because if we keep treating Gen Z like they’re broken — they’ll keep leaving like the system is.
And maybe they’re right.
A Better Way Forward
The leaders who will thrive in this new era are the ones who:
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Explain the why, not just the what
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Offer guidance, not just judgment
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Invite curiosity instead of shutting it down
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Know that culture is built daily, not printed in a handbook
And the Gen Z professionals who’ll thrive are those who:
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Ask for help without ego
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Understand that growth takes time
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Stay through discomfort instead of walking away from it
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Learn how to turn feedback into fuel
The Ending Mia Deserved
Six months later, Mia started a new job.
Same field. Same skills. But this time, something clicked.
Her new manager sat down with her and said:
“Here’s what success looks like.”
“Here’s how your work connects to the bigger picture.”
“You’re going to make mistakes — and that’s okay.”
“Ask me anything. Seriously.”
So she stayed.
She stumbled. She got back up.
She learned how to turn discomfort into growth.
And she thrived — not because she was lucky.
But because this time, someone saw her not just as an employee…
…but as a person in progress.
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